by Stephanie Benedetto | May 9, 2025 | Coaching, Personal Development
I’m in the midst of the hellish process of migrating to a new laptop – thank goddess for my personal tech guru! – and sorting through gigabytes of files, I noticed something. I have a galactic shit ton (yes, technical term) of educational videos, courses and...
by Stephanie Benedetto | Feb 17, 2025 | Personal Development
When I started pole dancing, I started at zero. I had no dance experience and couldn’t execute a pirouette or even a simple step-around the pole without looking like a clumsy idiot. Then I learned the fan kick. It’s a beginner move where you hold onto the pole, lift...
by Stephanie Benedetto | Nov 22, 2023 | Personal Development
The Dance This is it. I’m in the dimly lit dance studio, an audience of a few dear friends and my dance instructor sitting on mats at my feet. Poised on my chair, wearing my Sea Dragon holographic shorts and top, crossed legs ending in blue-green ankle boots with...
by Stephanie Benedetto | May 21, 2023 | Experiments, Personal Development
I failed at my Impossible Project. I did not complete my exotic dragon dance performance within the 90 days. My expectation wasn’t necessarily that I would succeed. After all, one of the criteria for an “impossible” project is that my chances of success seem to be...
by Stephanie Benedetto | Aug 4, 2017 | 100 Conversations
Do you have a mentor? Watch this: Learning from someone who’s mastered what you want to do is incredibly powerful. But it’s not what they teach you with words that has the biggest impact. There’s a way of learning by BEING, by showing up, rather than...
